[MR] [ suprise elevations]

[Jessica Maxson]

Salve tutti,

I had no intention of getting involved in this discussion, but I wanted to respond to this one comment:

>In this case, there was no surprise, but with the notice, a spectacular 
>ceremony was created by family and friends, with specially composed music. 
>I deeply believe that such an honor should be accompanied by processions, 
>ceremonies, pomp and circumstance equal to the honor. These are singular 
>achievements, and I believe that the occasion should reflect this.

The occasion can reflect the achievements and still be a surprise to the candidate. My Laurel ceremony, two and a half years ago, was a complete surprise to me, but not to my husband, household and closest friends. They had several months' notice, and in that time made beautiful garb appropriate to my persona, a spectacular banner with my arms (Sorcha de Glys rocks, by the way), and a period repast to offer hospitality to those who came to give me their advice and good wishes while I sat my vigil. The day of my elevation, and the ceremony itself (including a procession in which I was accompanied by the four Peers of our consortium), was everything I could have asked for. 

I wanted my elevation to be a surprise. I did not want a writ and a vigil date set some time in the future, because then I would have been completely stressed out trying to plan everything myself. So in this particular discussion I place myself in the camp of "The candidate's wishes should be placed above all." If your goal is to become a Peer, discuss your wishes concerning your vigil and elevation with someone close to you - your Peer, your spouse/significant other, your best friend. When the time comes they will know exactly what to do and how to advise the Crown.

Al vostro,
--Maestra Giuliana Salviati, OL