[MR] While this is sad, hope is not lost :)

[Thorwulfgar Uvaerkaller]

Achbar,
I have met you and know you are well known and loved by many.
I myself think your a likable guy, and a bit wacked out,{in a great way of course}.
and yes your words have merit.but no matter how much tact you use,and how much Honor or icing you put on the cake
if the people you invite dont like the icing,no matter how much you spread it or add many layers or flavors,
they wont eat it. yes positive is great and should be in use always,but sometimes thats a flavor many dont like,
because if they dont like the chef or the ingrediants,no flavor will do.

Some people are not afraid to tell the truth,because they dont care what others think because they see what
is happening to many lists and it is sad.but the positive in all of this is the fact people will go to where they 

can say what they feel and be welcomed,listened too and spoken too with the knowledge that all will hear
and put opinions in and learn.

yes there are discussions,then there is drabble,but that happens.but from my last post I was just showing that people
need to tolerate both sides of the story.some can, some cant.the ones that can might get responces,and the ones that cant ignore

the offending writer.I have watched and learned from the many lists I am with that there are alot of out of area lists that will be glad to hear from you.
while in area ones not so much.

I am in high hopes with a positive frame of mind that we can all learn from this and each other to grow and make 

these lists what they should be used for,talking and learning, not ignoring and tolerating only.

great to hear from you Achbar your a good man,

Torgar


 
Fearlessness is better then a faint heart for any man who puts his nose out of  doors,The length of my life and the day of my death were fated long ago.

Thorwulfgar Uvaerkaller



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From: Achbar <achbar at earthlink.net>
To: Thorwulfgar Uvaerkaller <thorwulff at yahoo.com>; Chris Harrop <chrshrrp at yahoo.com>; Garth Groff <ggg9y at virginia.edu>; "atlantia at atlantia.sca.org" <atlantia at atlantia.sca.org>
Sent: Tuesday, August 30, 2011 12:39 AM
Subject: Re: [MR] While this is sad, hope is not lost  :)




-----Original Message----- 
>From: Thorwulfgar Uvaerkaller 
>Sent: Aug 30, 2011 12:24 AM 
>To: Chris Harrop , Achbar , Garth Groff , "atlantia at atlantia.sca.org" 
>Subject: Re: [MR] While this is sad, hope is not lost  :) 
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>I think that its a fear of people who have..."stones" to tell the truth on Both sides.
>and a bigger fear of people listening to said "stones".
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>but my Opinion as always.
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>Torgar
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>In the past, i have mentioned  the word " Positive".  You can say anything you want to say so long as use a heavy dose of tact.  We have all heard this before such as  telling some one to go to hell and have the happy to go  :)  You can cover allot of territory on both sides by using tact.  
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>Achbar