[MR] 'Point of Honor'

[Cian Conor MacQuaid]

> Wow...from your description of the event, this fighter showed a mark lack of courtesy that wiped out any virtue from the compassion he was trying (I hope) to show you. It seems no different that someone offering to help me carry a basket, then grabbing it out of my hands after my refusal. All "good" from the offer, was negated by the rudeness involved. And that his knight would encourage such a view as you describes is unfortunate and a loss for Trimaris. 
> Molly 

I agree with your evaluation of the other fighter's reaction. I am
regularly surprised by how many times an offer of assistance to carry
things is declined. When it is, as with any other offer, the only proper
response is to respect their wishes. To tie in another thread, I find it
ironic that I will attempt to soundly beat a fighter on the field who
happens to be a woman, but then offer to carry her chair because she is.

Cian
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Viscount Cian Conor MacQuaid, KSCA
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