[MR] Finnr

[Becky Day]

First of all, apologies if you get this message more than once.

Last night, at Master Finnr's memorial service, many people got up and
shared their memories and thoughts about Finnr and what he meant to
them, some very eloquently. My skills do not include making
extemporaneous speeches, so I am sharing my thoughts in this forum
instead.

About a year ago, Master Finnr did me the honor of asking me to be his
apprentice.  Despite all my shortcomings and all the times I dropped the
ball, he believed in me and supported me. Much of what I have done right
in A&S in this kingdom has been due to his influence (the screw-ups are
my own fault).

Although he did teach me about Vikings and leather and wood and material
things, he also taught me by example what it means to be a Peer.  Today
I went to Corpora and re-read the expectations of a Peer within the
Society.  Among other things, it states that a Peer shall have "shared
their skill and knowledge with others" and shall have "practiced
hospitality according to their means and as appropriate to the
circumstances".  Finnr did that and more.

There are legends about a cauldron or chest that was perpetually filled
with good things and no matter how much was given, there would always be
more.  Finnr was like that.

I will remember Finnr by trying to be more like him - sharing what I
know and have with all who ask with open arms, dedicating myself to
researching and practicing the arts that make our "game" better, and by
treating all I meet with the same respect and friendliness that he did.
If we remember him and honor him in our lives, he will remain alive to
us.

But we will miss him.

Yours,
Margret